**Fighting Fair Beats Fighting Less: A Relationship Guide**

**Fighting Fair Beats Fighting Less: A Relationship Guide**

Published: January 15, 2026

Duration: 2:51

**The Art of Fighting Fair: Why How You Argue Matters More Than What You Argue About**

Every couple fights. If someone tells you they never disagree with their partner, they're either lying or they've been together for less than a week. The difference between relationships that thrive and those that barely survive isn't whether conflict exists—it's how you handle it when it inevitably shows up.

Here's what most people get wrong: they think resolving the specific issue at hand is what matters. Should we spend the holidays with your family or mine? Who forgot to pa...