When Opposites Attract: Making Different Work in Love

When Opposites Attract: Making Different Work in Love

Published: January 8, 2026

Duration: 2:39

# The Art of Dating Someone Who's Different From You

We've all heard the saying "opposites attract," but what happens after the initial spark? Dating someone who thinks differently, grew up in a different culture, or has contrasting interests can be exhilarating—and challenging. Here's how to make it work.

## Embrace Curiosity Over Judgment

When your partner reveals they've never seen your favorite movie franchise or doesn't understand your passion for hiking, resist the urge to be incredulous. Instead, get curious. Ask questions. Their different perspective isn't a gap to fix—it's a window into a wh...