The Best Conversations Are the Ones You Don't Have
Published: January 6, 2026
Duration: 3:10
# The Art of Comfortable Silence: Why Quietness Together Matters More Than Constant Conversation
We've all heard that communication is the cornerstone of any strong relationship, and while that's absolutely true, I want to challenge you to think differently about what meaningful communication really looks like.
Too many couples I work with feel pressured to fill every moment with talking, sharing, or entertainment. They panic during quiet dinners or when conversation lulls on a long drive. They interpret silence as awkwardness, distance, or a sign something's wrong. But here's what I've learned after years of helping people...
We've all heard that communication is the cornerstone of any strong relationship, and while that's absolutely true, I want to challenge you to think differently about what meaningful communication really looks like.
Too many couples I work with feel pressured to fill every moment with talking, sharing, or entertainment. They panic during quiet dinners or when conversation lulls on a long drive. They interpret silence as awkwardness, distance, or a sign something's wrong. But here's what I've learned after years of helping people...