E97 - Conflict? What Conflict? — With Valerie Polunas

Valerie Polunas walks into conflict like it’s a room she already rearranged. In this episode of 50 Tastes of Gray, she unpacks the quiet mechanics of tension — why we avoid it, how we disguise it, and the subtle ways conflict becomes part of our identity.

We talk about the stories we inherit, the emotional weather systems we carry, and the cultural scripts that tell us to stay “unbothered” even when we’re anything but. Valerie brings humor, clarity, and a deep sense of humanity to the conversation, turning conflict into something textured, navigable, and strangely comforting.

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