Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Lysa Terkeurst exemplifies a Nine Who's Done the Work

S10E1 - Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Lysa Terkeurst exemplifies a Nine Who's Done the Work

Published: July 2, 2026

Duration: 38:16

There's a particular kind of courage it takes for a Nine to write a book called Good Boundaries and Goodbyes — and Lysa TerKeurst has earned every word of it. Join us as we revisit Ian's conversation with the New York Times bestselling author to explore what it actually looks like to wake up from the Nine's trance of self-forgetting, find your voice, and learn to hold the line with compassion and clarity.

Lysa gets honest about her own journey: the years of codependency during a long marriage marked by addiction and affairs, the discovery that boundaries aren't wa...