The Way You Communicate Is Costing You Connection | Jason VanRuler

S9E48 - The Way You Communicate Is Costing You Connection | Jason VanRuler

Published: June 4, 2026

Duration: 46:06

What if the reason your closest relationships feel stuck isn't about how much you care — but about how differently you and the people you love communicate? Today, I sit down with Jason VanRuler, therapist, Enneagram Two, and author of Discovering Your Communication Type: The 5 Paths to Deeper Connection and Stronger Relationships, as he introduces us to his P.A.T.H.S. framework — five communication styles he identified through years of working with couples navigating betrayal, teams in conflict, and individuals trying to understand why the same words land so differently depending on who's in the room. Those five type...