The Power of a Word - The Difference Between a Neder and a Shevua - MATOT

The Power of a Word - The Difference Between a Neder and a Shevua - MATOT

Published: July 8, 2026

Duration: 19:11

This week, Parashat Matot opens with what appears to be a simple halachic question: What is the difference between a neder (vow) and a shevua (oath)? Yet beneath the legal definitions lies one of the Torah's most profound lessons about the power of human speech. Through the heartbreaking story of Yiftaḥ's daughter, the remarkable self-control of Boaz on the threshing floor, and the inspiring encounter between Shimon HaTzaddik and the Nazir, we discover that our words do far more than communicate—they create reality. Sometimes they change an object, sometimes they change the person, and sometimes they shape an e...