Why Self-Esteem Fails (And How to Build Real Self-Worth)

E670 - Why Self-Esteem Fails (And How to Build Real Self-Worth)

Published: August 24, 2026

Duration: 56:25

I sit down with psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Marisa Franco to break down the crucial differences between fragile self-esteem and true, lasting self-worth. We explore why traditional self-help advice often backfires, how unresolved "open" memories quietly drive present-day reactivity, and why healing requires loving self-acceptance rather than trying to eradicate your flaws. Dr. Franco also shares practical, science-backed tools - including memory reconsolidation and somatic exercises - to help you build a grounded foundation of internal security.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00:00 - Introduction & Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem

00:03:03 - Why Positive Self-Talk Can Backfire

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